1 week post op… horrible nerve pain

In similar situations, I recommend activity and stretching of the area, I.e., slow hip extension. It’s possible the repair feels a little tight for you and every time you put it on pressure (sit, stand, orgasm), then it’s pulling along the groin crease where it’s sewn.

I agree with the comment by your surgeon.

The body usually adapts to the problem. Consider experimenting with a TENS unit.