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A Confession
After the surgery failure and my three-month wait for a reply from my surgeon about it, I had much to think about. I felt vulnerable and powerless. It made me think of similar accounts read in HerniaTalk of members not listened to or ignored by their doctors. A great reversal from before my surgery!
Then before my hernia I was in the best of health. The closest I came to doctors were for my annual blood checks. Doctors were cheery guardians aiming to please.
That all was shattered by my three-month wait only to be followed by another three months of having to joust with hospital staff to answer a simple question. It takes a half-year for my surgeon to answer a simple question?? Totally bizarre.
All of which has led me to make a confession: it wasn’t until the astonishingly poor treatment, post-surgery, by my surgeon that I could grasp that medical casualties happen. Some doctors don’t listen. And some don’t–intentionally.
If you were tormented by a half-year of facing various barriers by hospital staff to impede communication, you would probably come to the same conclusion. We also would probably be more understanding of patients suffering a medical failure. Something however difficult without experience first hand. It is unfortunate for patients particularly in severe cases who must educate not only their doctors but also insurers, employers and so on. I can see that more clearly now after my own medical mishap.
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