It’s a good question. When going for “female” surgery, I did everything to avoid mesh due to the serious complications from it. My surgeon used a strip from my abdomen – which ultimately caused the femoral hernia issues I now have. I’ve ironically needed mesh for one side already and will need to do the other side very soon. I opted out of tissue from my leg or other areas for my original surgery because I learned that many people commonly suffered from disfiguring and physical harm with that option. I did not do the original surgery laparoscopically though – and that could have made all the difference in developing my hernias. My surgeon was an old school surgeon and otherwise did a great job. At the time I had little options for surgeons who would do surgery without mesh for my first surgery – so I felt he was my best bet.
So far – 2.5 years out – I am doing fine with my first femoral hernia surgery with a light weight mesh performed by Dr Brian Jacobs. The type of mesh is listed in my past postings. I do have slight sensations of mesh in my hernia area – but really nothing to complain about. I do feel that my body has had a reaction to having it in me – but again, it is so extremely slight – and I don’t have the big concerns of constantly worrying my family that I have to go for an emergency surgery at a local hospital where I would’ve lost all the benefits of an elective surgery with a dr of my choosing. Towards the end, my hernia would bulge to the size of a large grapefruit and cause considerable pain and worry. Femoral hernias, unlike inguinal hernias, require mesh – as I learned they are more likely to recur and up the chances of nerve damage due to repeated surgeries. In addition, they are more like to strangulate – so it is best not to delay the surgery when it becomes necessary. I was around 115 pounds at the time of my surgery and was in good physical shape, so it was not an issue of weight or not exercising. Deciding to get mesh was difficult. But ultimately it was necessary in my situation.