You’d be better to travel. Dr Brown or Dr Towfigh in CA will do non mesh. Or fly to the Shouldice Clinic in Toronto. People travel from across the world to go there for non-mesh repairs, including a sitting US Senator.
You are smart to avoid the mesh, as many of us can attest. That stuff can mess you up big time.
This is a real surgery and you need to spend the $$$ to have it treated by a true specialist. Don’t settle for convenience. Just my 2cents from someone who made that mistake.