Mark:
When I was first referred to a surgeon to have my umbilical hernia looked at the surgeon stuck one of his fingers into the hernia I assume to determine the size of the defect. Based on this the surgeon told me he would repair the hernia with sutures under general anesthetic but because my hernia was asymptomatic I could take the watchful waiting approach. Not comfortable undergoing general anesthetic I decided to go with watchful waiting. At that time I was not aware of the potential complications associated with mesh and was not concerned about having a mesh repair. I actually expected a mesh repair would have been recommended.
Over time my umbilical hernia increased in size and eventually became problematic. I finally decided I needed to get it repaired. I was examined by a resident who did the finger probe and told me the hernia would be repaired open with mesh under general anesthetic. I believe the defect was just over 2cm in diameter but I’m not exactly sure. At that time I was aware of the potential complications associated with mesh and told the surgeon doing the repair I would prefer a suture repair if possible. I remember hearing the surgeon saying umbilical hernia repair with mesh just before the anesthetic was administered. After I woke up I was told the surgeon was able to repair the hernia without mesh due to the strength of my tissue.
It has been over 4 years and the repair has not failed and I hope it continues to hold up. I will say the incision was quite painful for a few weeks after the surgery. I had to be careful getting in and out of bed. I had some abdominal swelling for a few days and the healing ridge took a few months to resolve. I followed the instructions provided by the hospital including not lifting anything over 10 pounds for 5 weeks.
What ever you decide, I wish you all the best.
Johnso