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Is what I’m describing a possible hernia?
Apologies for the convoluted mess, hopefully this is easy enough to understand.
Location: Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
Age: 29
Male, 5’7, 130 pounds. Non Smoker, regular exercise, (relatively) healthy diet.
Hi there Hernia Talk,
I’ve been dealing with what has been a medical mystery for the last 7 years, and I’d like to get some advice or suggestions for a way forward as I’m getting so tired of living life at 85%. I’ve had ultrasounds, MRIs, cystocopies, and urine flow tests and no diagnosis has been found for waht’s going on with me. My hunch is that I have an occult hernia containing part of my bowel and bladder, as the symptoms seem to best describe what’s going on.
It all started when I began running the summer before going to school for my Bachelor of Ed (May 2014). I had never had a history of running, and I pushed myself much too hard. I ended up waking up one day with an extreme, kind of dull pain in my abdomen, that eventually localised to the lower, right quadrant (my inguinal area). I ended up going to the ER and the doctor told me that it was “the beginning of a hernia,” and that we should “watch and wait” before doing anything. I’ve essentially been doing just that, but over the course of 7 years (since that running period) I’ve had the following symptoms:
– dull, tender pain in the lower right side of my abdomen
– changing stool shape (from extreme diarrhea to round stool, to L shaped and pencil shaped stool)
– dull pain in my lower back (occasional)
– right testicle sits “tight” to my body
– painful, painful ejaculations (I feel it on my right side)
– a bladder that never seems to properly empty/nocturia
Because, frankly this health issue is complicated and has alot of different things going on I’ll leave a timeline below, because not all of these symptoms showed up at once:
2014 – occasional dull pain in right side/testicle/back, painful ejaculations (rare). After going to the ER in May I had an ultrasound in the fall, which showed nothing.
2015 – similar symptoms. I went to Korea after graduation to teach and while I was there I ended up seeing some specialists who said the following:
I had congested spermatic cords/epididymitis, and that I needed a course of antibiotics. I took them as per the doctors orders, but nothing changed, and I went in for an ultrasound. The ultrasound specialist showed my what he saw and that there was part of my bowel in my inguinal canal. Unfortunately the doctor at the follow up explained away what was said and that it was something entirely different. No further follow up.
2016 – after coming home from Korea I went to Shouldice Hospital in (GTA area) thinking I could maybe get a definitive answer as to whether or not what was going on was a hernia. I was told because I didn’t have a bulge or any other classic signs of a hernia (though they didn’t do a physical exam) that I most likely had a groin strain and that it would eventually go away. My symptoms this year worsened – I began having bladder issues. It never seemed like my bladder would fully empty, and I could not for whatever reason sleep on my back because I constantly felt like I still had to go pee. I was also getting up 5, 10 or more times in a night to empty my bladder. These new symptoms started after I had returned home to Canada and was working retail. I remember lifting a very heavy garbage bag, feeling something move in my core, and then having these bladder issues. This has continued on until today.
2017 – occasional dull pain in right side/testicle/back, painful ejaculations (rare), a bladder that never seems to properly empty/nocturia.
I saw a private doctor who did a head to toe analysis and connected me with a urologist due to the bladder issues having the biggest affect on my quality of life. I was put on Mybetriq to help with my sleep, and the urologist ordered a cystocopy of my bladder to see what was going on. There was nothing definitive. I also had a pelvic MRI to rule out anything else, and there was nothing found. The diagnosis given to me was an overactive bladder.
2018 – similar symptoms. In some ways I had gotten used to the 85% quality of life I had been having and went traveling in late 2017. I returned back to Canada in June and reconnected with the urologist for an update on what was going on. After talking I had Uroflowmetry, and the results were fairly definitive that something was going on:
lots of bladder diverticulae, and the pressure from my bladder when I was peeing literally went off the measurement page, and that my bladder resembled that of someone in their 50s.
The follow was more medication to help calm my bladder, and the plan was to have MRI’s of my spine and head in 2019.
2019 – I had the requested MRIs of my head and spine. symptoms stayed the same.
2020 – Was connected with a neurologist, and the plan was to have me get another set of MRIs and to see a second urologist who suggested I get another cystocopy. Ultimately at this point I was too frustrated with a lack of clarity with what was going on or any answers that I didn’t get the blood work done for the MRIs and refused to have the cystocopy (the urologist insisted that I needed to have this done without being sedated because of my hypospadias and concern of my bladder issues being due to a stricture). Symptoms stayed the same.
2021 – Over the past couple months my symptoms have worsened. Current symptoms:
– dull, tender pain in the lower right side of my abdomen (rare now)
– changing stool shape (from extreme diarrhea to round stool, to L shaped and pencil shaped stool)
– issues passing stool. Feel full, urge to go poop but when I go either I can’t pass stool or it doesn’t seem to come out fully, almost like it’s sliding past something. This issue happened literally one morning in April and hasn’t changed or improved with diet, exercise, laxatives, etc. I still am able to pass stool but it is MUCH different than before.
– dull pain in my lower back (rare now)
– right testicle sits “tight” to my body
– painful, painful ejaculations (I feel it on both sides of my abdomen/testicles)
– a bladder that never seems to properly empty/nocturia (not as bad as before, only getting up two or three times a night)
Currently I’m waiting for a CT scan and colonoscopy, and will in fact be seeing another neurologist (in a weird stroke of luck the neurologist I saw last year retired and their office has set me up with the replacement).
My medical history the past 7 years probably sounds insane, convoluted, and confusing. All I want is SOME sort of answer, diagnosis, or way forward with what’s going on with my body so I can live a normal life. Id like to have a normal, unbroken sleep pattern again. I’d like to feel confident enough to date and NOT wear incontinence gear. I’d like to not have painful ejaculations.
Is what I’m describing a possible hernia? I would also like some advice as to a plan of action or way forward. It sucks having no clue what’s going on.
Can elaborate as needed, and thanks in advance.
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