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Dr. Peter S. Billing in Edmonds WA might be close to you, a surgeon with experience in removing mesh. He knows the signs and can offer good advice. There are many others listed on this site, that you could talk to via phone or email. You just have to take the step of calling or writing a letter and initiating a discussion with someone who has the proper knowledge. The hardest part might be accepting that they might recommend what you already suspect. That the mesh needs removal. Another surgery.
There are very few surgeons who understand mesh problems and/or will remove mesh to solve the problems. There are several posts about the issue, within the last few months, and one just a day or two ago.